Have you heard of the Greek concept of philotimo? 

Which means doing good for the sake of good. It refers to the moral obligation to respect and help others selflessly. Philotimo reflects a person’s character and relationship with their community. It compels people to contribute positively to society without expecting any returns. 

Harry Psaros, when writing his book From Struggle to Strength: A Father’s Journey with Autism and the Power of Hope and Positivity, was also inspired by the concept of philotimo, particularly for parents raising children on the autism spectrum. 

This book is about Psaros’s personal journey, along with that of his son Gus. It highlights the power of nurturing a supportive environment for others facing similar struggles, fostering a sense of community and support for parents of children on the autism spectrum.

Embrace Philotimo

Psaros passionately advocates for a proactive approach rooted in philotimo. 

He believes that giving back to the autism community is not merely a choice but a necessity, especially for parents who often grapple with isolation or hopelessness after receiving a diagnosis. 

By embracing philotimo, parents can build a community and help each other turn their challenges into strengths. According to Psaros, as parents of children with special needs, our objectives should be to create a ripple effect that uplifts others in the community. This way, we,  parents, can see our experiences not just as burdens but as opportunities to inspire and support others on a similar journey.

Become Advocates and Mentors

Initially, Harry struggled to accept his son’s diagnosis of autism, but as he learned to embrace it, he found himself motivated to help others in the same boat. By sharing his stories, Harry aims to provide invaluable insights and encouragement to others, establishing a sense of solidarity and understanding. 

Foster Community Organizations and Support Networks

But his motto of philotimo did not just end there. 

Psaros also helped establish community organizations, like North Fayette P.A.L.S., which provide critical support networks for families of children with autism. By participating in or initiating local support groups, parents can create a safe space to address their unique needs and challenges.

These networks serve as platforms for sharing resources and information and as emotional havens where families can connect with one another.

Volunteer and Educate Others

Education is vital in fostering understanding and acceptance in a community. Psaros’ memoir shows how volunteering—whether serving on boards, conducting workshops, or engaging with schools—can explain autism and advocate for necessary resources. 

By offering their time and expertise, parents can help change perceptions and reduce stigma, ultimately improving support for families affected by autism. Education empowers communities, equipping them with the knowledge to provide inclusive environments celebrating neurodiversity.

Offer Emotional Support and Positivity

One of the most powerful messages in Psaros’ book is the importance of emotional support and positivity. 

He emphasizes the resilience needed to raise a child on the autism spectrum and encourages parents to extend that support to others. Sometimes, simply being present and offering a listening ear can greatly impact someone who feels overwhelmed. 

Psaros’ focus on hope and positivity reminds us that every small act of kindness contributes to a more compassionate community. By sharing their journeys, parents can show others the beauty and joy that can arise from challenges, inspiring others to find light in their paths.Read From Struggle to Strength: A Father’s Journey with Autism and the Power of Hope and Positivity now on Amazon.